When i was single i had the hardest time finding someone to spend time with romantically. Hardly anyone was interested....then i met my girlfriend. We been together for almost 7 months and all of a sudden i have at least 5 at the moment who are trying to be with me. i don't understand it. They just came out of nowhere. i see all these people all the time. most are very very very attractive and my type, but i have a girlfriend. all these people and i have mutual friends, so i can't just stay away from them. 3 of them are really really tempting to me. I don't wanna do anything stupid, but the temptation is ridiculous. My girlfriend lives in the UK. we never see each other. i see these people almost everyday. I stay nights one's house occasionally when i have had too much to drink. One i work with so i see everyday. one i've had prior relationships with. the other two don't matter. but anyway just any ideas on how i can just deal with the temptation of seeing these people ever day.How would you guys deal with this type of temptation?
i know how is it htat they always appear when your starting a lrelationship... if you honestly believe that your relationship is strong and you can be faithful... while youlive so far dont fal into the temptation and be strong.. but if you know you cant then find someone else and start building a relationship with someone new
GOOD LUCK :] How would you guys deal with this type of temptation?
Who ever said temptation was a bad thing..
If you feel you'll be happier...messing with these girls that are more close to you...tell your little friend in the UK...Hasta la vista!!
But um...dont let these new hotties mess with your mind...chances are..you leave your good girlfriend in the UK.and mess with one of them..and 2 weeks later they say..';im not feeling this';...that would be stupid.
I think you should pick one of them. Your girlfriend in the UK will never know. Long distance relationships suck anyway.
To answer the first question, when you're without a gf and want one, you give off negative vibes. Then you find a gf, you're so much happier, and other people pick up on your happiness. That's part of what is happening. Seen it many times.
Can't tell you what to do about your situation, though. I try not to give advice in sticky situations. Someday somebody might actually DO what I advised, and then they'd be pissed at ME.
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