Ive started going out with this girl and she really is beautiful, but last nite we were out and she was kinda walking behind me and this guy walked by and said something to her. She wouldnt tell me what it was but im guessing it was some sort of sexual comment. Also anytime she went to the bar guys would chat her up and anytime i left her alone for more than a minute guys would swarm over. Im not happy about this at all so what do I do??? What can I do? Should i just accept that its gonna happen or should i be more protective of her and just not let her leave my side when we're out?How do you deal with guys making comments to your girlfriend and trying to chat her up?
if you're overprotective she'll get sick of it really quickly. if you just let it happen all the time, she'll think you're not interested in her or not man enough to take care of her. so, most of the time, let it be, but when it needs to be done step in and let all the guys know she's with you. it's a balanceHow do you deal with guys making comments to your girlfriend and trying to chat her up?
You need to trust her and have faith that she will be loyal to you. Other men will never leave her alone so you will just need to accept this fact of life. If you love her and she loves you these other men will pose no threat. let her know that you see this happen and let her know that you also think she is beautiful and you are confident in her loyalty and you trust her.
When you see this happen, remember, she has chosen to be with you. Be thankful that you have her heart. You could also walk up and put your arm around her when it happens near you to get the point across.
That's the nature of the beast when you're with a trophy woman. You just have to deal with it. But, you should also be standing next to her when you notice some guy trying to chat her up.
Mostly I just deal with it, but if they are particularly persistant I let them know they have the wrong equipment.
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