Wednesday, August 18, 2010

COLLEGE GUYS!!!boys/girls on same situation, HELP!what is the motive or intention behind this?

this friend of mine(actually the younger brother of my crush before) told this common gay friend of ours that we had sex on the night of his birthday when in truth is that we just slept together. that's all. nothing really happened. I swear! we had some drinks before we slept but nothing really happened. Now, he is already my rumored boyfriend at school. what do you think should i do? or why did he said that?i asked him already but he didn't exactly told me the details what he told to our gay friend all he replied is big deal. GUYS!!! give me some insights here...I wanna hang-out with our friends but the issue just won't die. BOTTOMLINE. i want to clear it but how?it's really just between me and him who knows the truth. help! I NEED SOME INSIGHTS? i need to get some sleep too...THANKSCOLLEGE GUYS!!!boys/girls on same situation, HELP!what is the motive or intention behind this?
It's sounds like 1 of 2 things: either he's gay or he likes you and he is too immature to go about it the right way. He also has issues with respect, as he would rather be a liar to you, and tarnish your rep, than be a good guy in front of everyone else. Maybe he thinks that if there's a big enough push, you will somehow work your way into his arms - kind of like a reverse psychology attempt. Or, if people focus on you two, it will take the focus off of him and some other dude. In my opinion, it's small-scale betrayal. Don't lie on me, about me, or to me. It's just not cool.





Regardless, you will never know what he is thinking or why he did it, because (this is the worst part about it) even if he told you, you couldn't trust it to be true because you know he's a liar. Do yourself a favor and be done with him. Tell him that you're done with him. You thought he was cool, but he's obviously not and you're really not the one to associate with people like that, so you're gonna have to cut him loose (as a friend of course). You still have mutual friends and maybe he's around alot, but you don't have to be on such an intimate level of friendship as you were before. He's just a dude who hangs around. If your friends keep bringing it up, don't feed the monster. You said it didn't happen, so it didn't happen. End of story. Maybe one day he'll come around and tell a few people the truth. Doesn't matter; he's a lame-o.COLLEGE GUYS!!!boys/girls on same situation, HELP!what is the motive or intention behind this?
As long as you are positive that something didn't happen between the two of you then tell your friends that this guy is a lying pig.

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