I am in college, and some of the people there just SERIOUSLY act like we are in high school and just bring up the stupidist unnessacary drama! My ex-best friend aren't on good terms, we haven't talked for about 2 months, out of nowhere, she sends me this incredibly mean message just to start drama!
I'm SICK OF IT! I'm happy with my friends and my family and my life, I just want these overly dramatic people out of my life!
How do you guys deal? Let me know.How do you deal with overly dramatic people?
Drama is like an argument; it needs co-operation of the people around it to exist.
If you ignore this person's attempt at drama, it will never become drama at all; instead, it will just be her putting on a sad, pathetic little show that no one wants to watch.
ps - stay away from the funyuns.How do you deal with overly dramatic people?
try to stay away from those people and another way to deal with it is to be dramatic back and see how they like it:)
Smack them. HARD.
As you have discovered, sometimes we grow away from our friends. Some people grow and mature; others do not.
If someone tries to engage you in a situation you don't want to deal with, just ignore them. There is nothing that says you need to respond to a mean and virulent letter. Your friend can try to stir up crap all she wants, but YOU choose how to respond to it.
Eventually, when they see you won't participate in that behavior, they go away. Good luck!
Saturday, August 21, 2010
How to deal with guys who like you who I don't like back?
I told them that I don't see them as more than friends, yet they take that line to the limit by visitin gme at work, walking me to class, to my car. It makes me look like I'm taken but when I'm not and really I wish they would chill. How do I go about this or do I just deal with it? It's hard to avoid them when they know where to find me.
P.S.
They aren't stalkers, just I don't like the attentionHow to deal with guys who like you who I don't like back?
be honest with them and tell them that you only want to be friends, and that you feel that you need a little space at times or you could say your boss isn't happy with their presence whilst you are at work , good luck.
P.S.
They aren't stalkers, just I don't like the attentionHow to deal with guys who like you who I don't like back?
be honest with them and tell them that you only want to be friends, and that you feel that you need a little space at times or you could say your boss isn't happy with their presence whilst you are at work , good luck.
How do you deal with guys like this?
Why do most guys like to mess with girls heads???? I just cant figure it out... i mean if you really like someone you should be honest with them.... I dont think it is really fair to just leave someone hanging and all... If you say something and realize you have mad a mistake then tell that person... If your scared then tell them.... But DO NOT play mind games its not fair... anyway... how can you make guys realize this....How do you deal with guys like this?
You can't....some of us are confused....some of us are easily panic stricken and muddled....some of us are just plain stupid...and others are just a s s holes and enjoy playing mind games cause it makes them feel cool and gives them something to talk about...don't waste your time with that type...not all guys are like that :) - It's all about learning from your mistakes and getting it right in the end - you'll learn to pick out the wrong types - Although for some strange reason you girls always seem to go for the a s s holes first...my only solace is that what goes around comes around and someday they'll get their comeupance.How do you deal with guys like this?
You can't. WE DON'T CARE. Your only hope is to simply avoid this type of guy.
it part of growing up and knownig better the next time
Nimble Nimrod said it all.Be more selective with the person your with.
plan and simple guys are just dumb when it comes to women
You can't....some of us are confused....some of us are easily panic stricken and muddled....some of us are just plain stupid...and others are just a s s holes and enjoy playing mind games cause it makes them feel cool and gives them something to talk about...don't waste your time with that type...not all guys are like that :) - It's all about learning from your mistakes and getting it right in the end - you'll learn to pick out the wrong types - Although for some strange reason you girls always seem to go for the a s s holes first...my only solace is that what goes around comes around and someday they'll get their comeupance.How do you deal with guys like this?
You can't. WE DON'T CARE. Your only hope is to simply avoid this type of guy.
it part of growing up and knownig better the next time
Nimble Nimrod said it all.Be more selective with the person your with.
plan and simple guys are just dumb when it comes to women
How can a guy deal with a situation where he gets too much attention from a girl?
especially when he doesn't want to hurt her feelings or to completely stay away from her either...How can a guy deal with a situation where he gets too much attention from a girl?
You should be greatful that someone would want to give you attention like that. But you can just politely tell her that you appreciate everything she does for you, but you need a little space. Just do it nicely.How can a guy deal with a situation where he gets too much attention from a girl?
well u remind me of a senior in my school
just stay a distance and avoid the attention
enjoy it and stop thinking that it's undue
make a gf she'll take care of everything
maybe she likes you. you have to ignore her atleast for a while so she gets the hint.it might hurt but this is the only way she will know.Just keep your distance without being rude ofcourse. If she comes up to you to talk, excuse yourself after 5 mins. Don't reply to her texts immediately, don't answer her calls. Just let her down gently. She will back off after a while.
You should be greatful that someone would want to give you attention like that. But you can just politely tell her that you appreciate everything she does for you, but you need a little space. Just do it nicely.How can a guy deal with a situation where he gets too much attention from a girl?
well u remind me of a senior in my school
just stay a distance and avoid the attention
enjoy it and stop thinking that it's undue
make a gf she'll take care of everything
maybe she likes you. you have to ignore her atleast for a while so she gets the hint.it might hurt but this is the only way she will know.Just keep your distance without being rude ofcourse. If she comes up to you to talk, excuse yourself after 5 mins. Don't reply to her texts immediately, don't answer her calls. Just let her down gently. She will back off after a while.
How do you deal with guys like this?
i went out with a friend last night. we went to see some local bands at a pub. i didn't plan on getting drunk but i did. i don't even remember how the band sounded like.
anyway, when i was feeling tipsy. there was a guy sitting next to me. he was really stiff. he sat still, not moving at all. and i wanted to tease him so i stared at him and made it really obvious i was staring. he didn't even see me. at the end of the gig, i fell asleep next to him.. and i sort of remember playing with his keyring on his bag. my friend told me to wake up. i got up and he was staring at me.
he said hi. i said hi back and he gave me a cheerful smile... and then disappeared..
that was the most wonderful awkward moment in my life!
i wanted to talk to him but i have no idea how to do it. and i don't understand why he said hi to me and smiled and then disappeared.
so how do you deal with guys like this?
i've got a thing for weird quiet guys.How do you deal with guys like this?
It doesnt matter that u let him go. How to deal with them? thats a toughie, my friends say i have a really bad taste in guys because they're wierd, quiet, sensitive, etc. i dont think it is bad, everyone has a different type of boy. sometimes wierd and quiet can be the most cutest. just compliment and make conversation, its really hard with quiet ones.... :D gd luk!
anyway, when i was feeling tipsy. there was a guy sitting next to me. he was really stiff. he sat still, not moving at all. and i wanted to tease him so i stared at him and made it really obvious i was staring. he didn't even see me. at the end of the gig, i fell asleep next to him.. and i sort of remember playing with his keyring on his bag. my friend told me to wake up. i got up and he was staring at me.
he said hi. i said hi back and he gave me a cheerful smile... and then disappeared..
that was the most wonderful awkward moment in my life!
i wanted to talk to him but i have no idea how to do it. and i don't understand why he said hi to me and smiled and then disappeared.
so how do you deal with guys like this?
i've got a thing for weird quiet guys.How do you deal with guys like this?
It doesnt matter that u let him go. How to deal with them? thats a toughie, my friends say i have a really bad taste in guys because they're wierd, quiet, sensitive, etc. i dont think it is bad, everyone has a different type of boy. sometimes wierd and quiet can be the most cutest. just compliment and make conversation, its really hard with quiet ones.... :D gd luk!
What is the deal guy i just dont know?
ok so i have this guy i have been friends with for like four years. so he and i had not gotten to talk to much since i got out of high school and then one time we talked a while back and he was different more like flirty in a i dont know dirty way a little and i thought he was kidding. so then this past week i missed him so sent him a text and he said he wanted the same thing and i thought he was kidding so i asked him a few more questions and he said that he has always wanted to see it and when i asked what he said everything. i dont get what he wants does he just want to see me, well all of me or is there something he isnt telling me. im not sure how he feels about me, maybe i could get some answers. thanks for listening and for the help.What is the deal guy i just dont know?
If he is interested in getting to know all of you, literally and figuratively, he will let you know. Don't go chasing his ***.What is the deal guy i just dont know?
oh my god obviously he wants ***. and you sort of kind of led him on to believe u wanted it to.
Ignore him he is a pervert.
sorry i don't get the thingy u sayin//////////1
He just wants to seeall of you just forget he excistsgray hair hair cutting
If he is interested in getting to know all of you, literally and figuratively, he will let you know. Don't go chasing his ***.What is the deal guy i just dont know?
oh my god obviously he wants ***. and you sort of kind of led him on to believe u wanted it to.
Ignore him he is a pervert.
sorry i don't get the thingy u sayin//////////1
He just wants to seeall of you just forget he excists
How can I deal with guys who try to be Alpha males?
I live in a dorm and there are some guys I know who always try to act like Aplha males - dominating the conversation, preventing others from talking, always trying to catch ppl's attention and get others to listen to them, etc. It is so annoying and I feel quite inferior near these ppl, I hate it and I want to do something to put them in their place.How can I deal with guys who try to be Alpha males?
You don't have to hang out with that crowd. Making lots of acquaintances is much better than having your little group of friends. This way you are popular but you don't get any of the drama BS that comes with friendships.How can I deal with guys who try to be Alpha males?
why bother they don't know everything and sooner or later the bottom falls out from under them you just don't want to be close when that happens.pay them no mine and do your thing.
well, it is cos u feel inferior. i suggest u be superior at least in smth - go to gym and pump muscles, read books and outsmart them, get the prettiest girl on cumpus - do not be inferior. and u can't put them on their place - they will think u just envy them and might even start bullying u
The best way to deal with guys who try to be Alpha males is to ignore them; unless, of course you are a meer cat, a baboon, a hyena, or another lower animal specie; then, of course, you must fight for your place in the ';pecking'; order.
Unless you are willing to place yourself in a position to physically or verbally battle with the ';guys'; who are always talking and dominating the conversation in your dorm, your only choice is to just leave any gathering where this is taking place. Walk out. Don't feel inferior to a ';braggart';.
Try being the alpha male yourself, like talk before they do, don't listen to them when they start talking ,and catch their attention before they catch yours.But be nice about it.
just don't listen what every they do or say and if they get your business just do what you like to do to them
You don't have to hang out with that crowd. Making lots of acquaintances is much better than having your little group of friends. This way you are popular but you don't get any of the drama BS that comes with friendships.How can I deal with guys who try to be Alpha males?
why bother they don't know everything and sooner or later the bottom falls out from under them you just don't want to be close when that happens.pay them no mine and do your thing.
well, it is cos u feel inferior. i suggest u be superior at least in smth - go to gym and pump muscles, read books and outsmart them, get the prettiest girl on cumpus - do not be inferior. and u can't put them on their place - they will think u just envy them and might even start bullying u
The best way to deal with guys who try to be Alpha males is to ignore them; unless, of course you are a meer cat, a baboon, a hyena, or another lower animal specie; then, of course, you must fight for your place in the ';pecking'; order.
Unless you are willing to place yourself in a position to physically or verbally battle with the ';guys'; who are always talking and dominating the conversation in your dorm, your only choice is to just leave any gathering where this is taking place. Walk out. Don't feel inferior to a ';braggart';.
Try being the alpha male yourself, like talk before they do, don't listen to them when they start talking ,and catch their attention before they catch yours.But be nice about it.
just don't listen what every they do or say and if they get your business just do what you like to do to them
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